Top Ten! | 2015 Smallest Things Blogs

A huge thank you to everyone who has written, contributed, shared and read; each and top teneveryone helping us to raise awareness in 2015!

So, here goes…. Our Top Ten most read posts of the last 12 months!

At 10. Our Story “In those first few days I was lost and empty; the emotional impact of leaving hospital without a baby in your arms is hard to describe…..” 

9. Starting School a year too soon “He continues to meet all his milestones, keeps up with his peers and fills me with pride – yet he will still start school a whole academic year too soon. He’s ready and he’s not ready.”

8. 30ml Mum  “Everything revolved around expressing. Was I doing something wrong? Why couldn’t I produce more? Other mums would enter the expressing room and fill bottle after bottle – I couldn’t even get half way.”

7. Too soon, Too early: This Family needs more time  “I felt conflicted and confused. I was grateful that she was well enough to come home, but I couldn’t help feeling cheated out of time and then felt guilty for feeling that way.”

6. Extend Maternity Leave for mothers of premature babies “…more than a quarter of my maternity leave was spent visiting my baby in hospital and according to Bliss, like me, 60 per cent of mothers felt their maternity leave was too short.”

5. Eva & Charlotte’s Story “While NCT groups up and down the country are meeting for coffee and talking about pooing and breastfeeding, NICU mums gather in expressing rooms to discuss breathing support, surgery and methods of tube-feeding. It’s like an alternative reality where life-or-death moments are discussed in the same way as nap routines.”

4. Shock, Trauma & Hope: A life changing journey through neonatal care “…This is the mark of a premmie mum. From nowhere, I was signed up and given lifelong membership to a club I never wanted to join, nor even imagined existed.”

3. Top Ten! | What not to say “At least you got to miss that really big stage”.

2. Longer mat leave for preemie mums: 5 Reasons Why “Mothers of babies born too soon face the agonising journey of leaving hospital without their baby day after day. Any NICU mum will tell you, there is a lot of watching and waiting in neonatal care – waiting for that first precious hold, usually days, sometimes weeks after their baby is born.”

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and finally, our most read post of 2015….

  1. Time to Talk: PTSD the hidden cost of NICU “Nothing can prepare you for parenthood, but you allow yourself to imagine the arrival of your baby; those first precious holds, taking them home to meet loved ones, the time together to grow and bond – and then suddenly everything you imagined is dramatically replaced with the alien and uncertain world of neonatal intensive care.”

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